Every woman has an idea on how she wants her future partner to treat her, she might not have a clear picture of Mister Right in her mind but she can tell what qualities and traits she expects from her future husband. And this is good because it means that you will spare yourself the trouble of getting involved with someone who isn’t a good fit for you.
Unfortunately, this isn’t always such an easy task, identifying if the man you’re dating is the right one for you as people tend to reveal their true personality only after they’ve become completely comfortable with the other person, and for some people this can even happen in marriage. This can often be misleading and you may end up being married to a person who doesn’t suit you at all, someone who doesn’t respect you or someone who believes a woman’s place is in the kitchen and nothing more. Be careful and make sure you get to know a person and his habits before jumping into the rollercoaster of marriage with him.
That’s why we’ve come up with a set of 13 habits that reveal a man’s true intentions and if you spot them in your partner you should most definitely let him go as he is not the man for you.
Here are the 13 most hated habits in men
Seriously can you imagine yourself with someone that hates animals? How can you hate a dog or a cat, such innocent creatures who’ve got nothing but love for us humans? Don’t get us wrong, there are people who simply are afraid of some animals, or are allergic to them but this is far from hating them. Hating animals for no specific reasons is pure lack of empathy.
He breaks the rules
This means that he goes against everything you say. You tell him you mind him doing this or that and he still goes ahead and does it, that’s just disrespect towards you and your relationship. You need to set some ground rules and make sure you both follow them, every relationship has them. If he still doesn’t respect them it’s time to let him go.
He doesn’t keep his promises
You can let him off the hook for a small mistake, or a broken promise once in a million years, but if he does it often you should take actions. Talk to him and explain how you feel, if he still keeps breaking his promises, he’s not worth your time.
He breaks off ties easily
If he cuts all ties with a person after a small disagreement or a quarrel you may want to rethink your choice of partners. He might do this with a colleague, a childhood friend or his superior but he may also do it with you out of the blue someday.
He believes he’s always right
If he’s one of those people who always think they’re right and they’re perfect and that they’ve never been wrong about anything in life he will be a pain in the a** later on in life. You may find this quirky at the beginning but people who can’t realize their own mistakes are impossible to live with. If he never doubts his decisions and admits his mistakes you’ll always be the fall guy who’ll take the blame for everything.
He never gives up on a fight
Fighting between partners is a normal thing, it’s a sign of a healthy relationship and can even spice up your relationship from time to time. We all have different opinions on certain topics and we should be able to discuss them with our partners even if we disagree.
But if he’s one of those people who always want to have the last word in a fight and never lets you agree to disagree you need to think twice about continuing your relationship.
He doesn’t let you express yourself
He shushes you, cuts you off and doesn’t let you finish a sentence? He thinks the whole world revolves around him and always want to be in the center of attention? If he does this he simply doesn’t respect your opinion or lacks the basic communications skills, either way you don’t need him in your life.
He lies to you
And we’re not talking about a little white lie, here and there, these can be excused. We’re talking about constant lies that have a negative effect on your relationship and concern important things. Every healthy, stable relationship is based on trust but if he lies to you all the time how can you trust him.
He has a narrow mind
If he’s narrow minded he will always hold you back and won’t let you enjoy your life to the fullest. Eventually you’ll start resenting him for holding you back or you’ll cave under the pressure and become a fearful, insecure person yourself.
You’re never a priority
If you always feel like you’re the last thing on his agenda he’s not the right guy for you. A loving partner should always put you first and if this is not the case, if everyone and everything else comes before you, he’s not the man for you.
He is abusive
An abusive partner is the worst kind and nothing else should matter as this is a clear warning sign you need to distance yourself and exit the relationship. It doesn’t matter if he’s physically or emotionally abusive, abuse and love just don’t go together, never! No one deserves to be in an abusive relationship and there’s no excuse for a partner who spirals out of control whenever he feels like it.
He always makes excuses
Whatever he does he always comes up with the most ingenious excuse to justify his actions. If this rings a bell you need to start looking for a new partner as this is a sign that he’s not invested in your relationship or simply doesn’t care enough.
This is not a sign that he loves you and wants you just for himself, it’s a sign that he doesn’t trust you enough and has insecurity issues. As sweet as it may seem at the beginning, a clingy partner is the worst kind of partner and you’ll get sick of it pretty quickly.
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